"A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else"
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The line lands like a moral mousetrap: it lets failure wander around a room for as long as it needs, then snaps shut the moment the ego reaches for an alibi. Burroughs isn’t selling hustle culture grit; he’s drawing a boundary between setback and self-deception. “Fail many times” is permissive, almost gentle, an acknowledgment that error is ordinary and iterative. The condemnation arrives only with “begins to blame somebody else,” a phrase that turns failure from an event into a character.
The subtext is about agency as a form of dignity. Burroughs wrote in an America steeped in self-reliance mythology and anxious about moral fiber in an industrializing, increasingly bureaucratic world. Blame, in that context, isn’t just whining; it’s an abdication. When you outsource responsibility, you also outsource your power to change anything. That’s why the quote feels less like a pep talk than a warning: the real collapse happens internally, when narrative control shifts from “I can learn” to “I am helpless.”
It also smuggles in a social critique. Burroughs was a keen observer of nature and human behavior, and he understood how easy it is to make the world your scapegoat: the boss, the economy, the system, the weather. He’s not denying structural forces; he’s diagnosing a psychological move that turns legitimate hardship into a permanent identity. Failure is survivable. The blame reflex is what hardens it into fate.
The subtext is about agency as a form of dignity. Burroughs wrote in an America steeped in self-reliance mythology and anxious about moral fiber in an industrializing, increasingly bureaucratic world. Blame, in that context, isn’t just whining; it’s an abdication. When you outsource responsibility, you also outsource your power to change anything. That’s why the quote feels less like a pep talk than a warning: the real collapse happens internally, when narrative control shifts from “I can learn” to “I am helpless.”
It also smuggles in a social critique. Burroughs was a keen observer of nature and human behavior, and he understood how easy it is to make the world your scapegoat: the boss, the economy, the system, the weather. He’s not denying structural forces; he’s diagnosing a psychological move that turns legitimate hardship into a permanent identity. Failure is survivable. The blame reflex is what hardens it into fate.
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| Topic | Failure |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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