"A man can get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying"
About this Quote
The phrasing is almost legalistic. "Until" works like a statute of limitations, defining when ordinary struggle becomes culpable surrender. "Begins to blame" matters, too: Burroughs isn't talking about one bitter outburst, but the start of a habit, a narrative you rehearse until it feels like truth. In that sense, "somebody else" isn't just an external scapegoat. It's a stand-in for any explanation that lets the self off the hook - the system, bad luck, the unfair boss, the jealous friend. Some of those may be real; Burroughs is less interested in their reality than in what happens when they become your final story.
Context helps. Burroughs, a nature essayist shaped by 19th-century American self-reliance, wrote in a culture intoxicated by character talk: discipline, industry, personal responsibility. His line echoes that era's moral coaching, but it also reveals an anxiety familiar now: the seductive power of victimhood as a resting place. The quote works because it flatters and challenges at once - it forgives the feeling, but refuses to sanctify the excuse.
Quote Details
| Topic | Never Give Up |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burroughs, John. (2026, January 14). A man can get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-get-discouraged-many-times-but-he-is-55764/
Chicago Style
Burroughs, John. "A man can get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-get-discouraged-many-times-but-he-is-55764/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man can get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-can-get-discouraged-many-times-but-he-is-55764/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










