"A man either lives life as it happens to him, meets it head-on and licks it, or he turns his back on it and starts to wither away"
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The subtext is pure Roddenberry. Star Trek’s optimism was never soft; it was engineered. The future only arrives because people refuse resignation. You can hear the producer’s worldview in the pacing: conflict is inevitable, avoidance is character death. “Wither away” isn’t metaphoric wallpaper; it’s the slow cancellation of the self, the fate of anyone who opts out of the messy work of agency.
Context matters, too. Roddenberry came of age in the shadow of World War II and built his legacy during the Cold War, when “turning your back” carried political charge. The quote sells a secular salvation story: meaning is made through confrontation. It’s not asking you to be fearless. It’s warning that the real danger is choosing numbness and calling it peace.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roddenberry, Gene. (2026, January 15). A man either lives life as it happens to him, meets it head-on and licks it, or he turns his back on it and starts to wither away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-either-lives-life-as-it-happens-to-him-170090/
Chicago Style
Roddenberry, Gene. "A man either lives life as it happens to him, meets it head-on and licks it, or he turns his back on it and starts to wither away." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-either-lives-life-as-it-happens-to-him-170090/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man either lives life as it happens to him, meets it head-on and licks it, or he turns his back on it and starts to wither away." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-either-lives-life-as-it-happens-to-him-170090/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.












