"A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best; but what he has said or done otherwise shall give him no peace"
About this Quote
That’s classic Emerson: the ethics of self-reliance rendered as emotional consequence. In the 19th-century American context - a culture trying to invent its own authority apart from European tradition and inherited hierarchy - he’s building an inner metric for dignity. Work becomes the arena where character gets audited daily, not by God’s thunder or a monarch’s decree, but by the quiet, persistent pressure of integrity.
The subtext is a warning against performative living. Emerson doesn’t promise success; he promises alignment. “Heart” here isn’t sentimentality but total engagement, the refusal to split yourself into public persona and private doubt. When you do, the punishment is modern and familiar: a restlessness that reads like anxiety, but is really self-betrayal keeping receipts.
Quote Details
| Topic | Work Ethic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Emerson, Ralph Waldo. (2026, January 17). A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best; but what he has said or done otherwise shall give him no peace. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-is-relieved-and-gay-when-he-has-put-his-26730/
Chicago Style
Emerson, Ralph Waldo. "A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best; but what he has said or done otherwise shall give him no peace." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-is-relieved-and-gay-when-he-has-put-his-26730/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best; but what he has said or done otherwise shall give him no peace." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-is-relieved-and-gay-when-he-has-put-his-26730/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











