"A man never tells you anything until you contradict him"
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As a dramatist, Shaw understood that character is revealed in conflict, not confession. His stage is a machine for producing truth by irritation. The “never” is classic Shavian exaggeration - a comic absolute meant to sting - but it carries a practical insight. Most of what we call “telling” is performance: polished self-image, socially acceptable motives, the version designed to keep the room calm. Contradiction punctures that calm. It triggers the defensive reflex: the sudden over-explaining, the accidental admission, the revealing shift from principles to grievances. People don’t just defend beliefs; they defend status.
The gendered “man” matters in Shaw’s context: late Victorian and Edwardian public life prized masculine authority, certainty, and rhetorical control. To contradict a man in that culture wasn’t merely to disagree; it was to challenge a social ranking. Shaw, a professional heretic with socialist politics and a taste for skewering complacency, is pointing to the moment when authority stops being smooth and becomes human.
The subtext is mischievous and tactical: if you want honesty, don’t beg for it. Apply friction. Truth, for Shaw, is often less a moral triumph than a byproduct of argument.
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Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 15). A man never tells you anything until you contradict him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-never-tells-you-anything-until-you-14003/
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Shaw, George Bernard. "A man never tells you anything until you contradict him." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-never-tells-you-anything-until-you-14003/.
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"A man never tells you anything until you contradict him." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-never-tells-you-anything-until-you-14003/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.















