"A man of such obvious and exemplary charm must be a liar"
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The sentence works because it treats “obvious” and “exemplary” as red flags. Charm that announces itself, that feels curated and publicly legible, stops being personality and becomes strategy. Brookner’s suspicion isn’t aimed at charisma per se, but at charisma that reads like a demonstration: the kind that suggests rehearsal, selective disclosure, a practiced intimacy. “Must be” is the dagger. It’s not “might be,” not “often is,” but a categorical verdict, delivered with the brisk certainty of someone who has watched this pattern repeat.
As a historian by training and a novelist by vocation, Brookner understood that social life is full of scripts. People learn what plays well, what disarms, what buys them the benefit of the doubt. Her line sits in a late-20th-century British register of cultivated skepticism: class-coded polish, institutional manners, and the soft power of appearing “nice.” Charm becomes a technology of consent, laundering self-interest into likability.
The subtext is almost tender in its severity: if you’ve been charmed, you’ve been targeted. Brookner gives the reader a prophylactic against the seductions of surface. It’s a reminder that the most persuasive lie is the one delivered with perfect manners.
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Brookner, Anita. (2026, January 17). A man of such obvious and exemplary charm must be a liar. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-of-such-obvious-and-exemplary-charm-must-be-37362/
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Brookner, Anita. "A man of such obvious and exemplary charm must be a liar." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-of-such-obvious-and-exemplary-charm-must-be-37362/.
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"A man of such obvious and exemplary charm must be a liar." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-of-such-obvious-and-exemplary-charm-must-be-37362/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














