"A man should be upright, not be kept upright"
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In Marcus’s world, “kept upright” had plenty of candidates. An emperor is surrounded by attendants, flattery, law, and ceremony - external supports that can manufacture the appearance of character. He’s warning himself against that comfort. If your integrity requires the court, the uniform, the audience, then it isn’t integrity; it’s stagecraft. The real test is what happens when the props are kicked away: when you’re tired, unobserved, insulted, tempted, or alone with your own thoughts. Stoicism insists that moral agency must survive those conditions.
There’s also a subtle political edge. Rome ran on discipline, hierarchy, and coercion, and Marcus was literally a soldier-emperor. “Kept upright” evokes a man forced into compliance by systems - punishment, reward, social pressure. Marcus doesn’t reject order, but he draws a line between civic obedience and inner freedom. The citizen worth having, the soldier worth trusting, is self-governed.
The sentence is short because the demand is nonnegotiable: be the kind of person who stands without braces. Anything else is just being arranged into decency by someone else.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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