"A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire: not too near, lest he burn; nor too far off, lest he freeze"
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The metaphor is doing heavy lifting. Fire is impersonal. It doesn’t care if you’re loyal, talented, or right. It just burns. That’s Pike’s subtext about “superiors”: their authority is less a moral achievement than a force of nature within institutions. In that framing, naïveté is the real sin. The person who stands too near isn’t punished because the superior is uniquely evil; they’re punished because the structure rewards dependence until it suddenly punishes it.
Context matters: Pike was a 19th-century American lawyer who moved in worlds where advancement ran through networks, patrons, and reputations. In that ecosystem, knowing your distance from judges, clients, politicians, or senior partners wasn’t etiquette - it was survival. The line reads like counsel to an ambitious professional: cultivate access without becoming property, maintain deference without surrendering judgment.
There’s also a quiet warning to the powerful themselves: if you demand too much closeness, you’ll end up with charred flatterers, not useful allies.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pike, Albert. (2026, January 15). A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire: not too near, lest he burn; nor too far off, lest he freeze. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-should-live-with-his-superiors-as-he-does-74413/
Chicago Style
Pike, Albert. "A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire: not too near, lest he burn; nor too far off, lest he freeze." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-should-live-with-his-superiors-as-he-does-74413/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire: not too near, lest he burn; nor too far off, lest he freeze." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-should-live-with-his-superiors-as-he-does-74413/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.












