"A man sits in his car at the traffic lights, waiting for them to go green"
About this Quote
Frayn’s comedy has always prized the mechanics of the everyday and the humiliations of being conscious inside it. A red light is a tiny authoritarian state: arbitrary, impersonal, universally obeyed. The man’s compliance is both sensible and faintly absurd. No villain, no drama, just a system that turns grown adults into patient children, eyes forward, hands on the wheel, hoping for permission. That hope - “waiting for them to go green” - sneaks in a bigger human condition: we organize our lives around external signals, convinced that the next change of light will let us start.
The subtext is isolation. In a crowd of cars, each driver is sealed off, performing civility alone. It’s also a quiet joke about narrative itself. Most stories skip the red lights; Frayn lingers, implying that the texture of life is made of these pauses, these small rehearsals in restraint. If there’s irony, it’s gentle but sharp: modern freedom often looks like sitting still, on schedule, in traffic.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frayn, Michael. (2026, January 15). A man sits in his car at the traffic lights, waiting for them to go green. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sits-in-his-car-at-the-traffic-lights-165499/
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Frayn, Michael. "A man sits in his car at the traffic lights, waiting for them to go green." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sits-in-his-car-at-the-traffic-lights-165499/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man sits in his car at the traffic lights, waiting for them to go green." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sits-in-his-car-at-the-traffic-lights-165499/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.






