"A man who does not trust himself will never really trust anybody"
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The line’s intent is diagnostic: self-distrust produces social paranoia. If you can’t rely on your judgment, your promises, your ability to endure consequences, then other people’s intentions become unknowable by default. You begin to treat every offer as a trap and every loyalty as performative. Not because everyone is false, but because your inner tribunal is already convinced you’re unsteady. De Retz turns a moral failing into a practical handicap: instability inside becomes hostility outside.
The subtext is sharper than it looks. “Trust yourself” isn’t self-help; it’s a demand for interior governance. In a religious register, that means conscience, discipline, and accountability before God. In a worldly register, it means coherence: acting in ways you can later defend without rewriting your own story. De Retz, who knew both confession and faction, is warning that the person most likely to preach cynicism is the person trying to outrun his own self-knowledge.
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Retz, Cardinal De. (2026, January 17). A man who does not trust himself will never really trust anybody. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-does-not-trust-himself-will-never-75636/
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Retz, Cardinal De. "A man who does not trust himself will never really trust anybody." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-does-not-trust-himself-will-never-75636/.
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"A man who does not trust himself will never really trust anybody." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-does-not-trust-himself-will-never-75636/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










