"A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away"
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The line works because it doesn’t romanticize authenticity; it treats identity like capital. If you keep spending pieces of yourself to buy approval, you eventually run out of principal. “Suit everybody” reads like a customer-service fantasy, the corporate equivalent of being all things to all stakeholders. Schwab’s subtext is managerial and unsentimental: chasing universal buy-in is not just impossible, it’s strategically ruinous. The more you optimize for every audience, the less distinctive value you offer any of them.
Context matters. Schwab’s America prized industrial scale, public confidence, and hard-edged negotiation. In that world, a leader without a clear spine becomes legible as weak, and weakness gets priced in fast. There’s also a moral jab here at social ambition: the compulsive people-pleaser isn’t being generous; he’s bargaining for safety.
It’s a bleakly efficient sentence because it turns a common virtue (flexibility) into a liability through imagery you can feel: the pile of shavings on the floor, proof that “fitting in” always costs material.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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Schwab, Charles M. (2026, January 17). A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-trims-himself-to-suit-everybody-will-41165/
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Schwab, Charles M. "A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-trims-himself-to-suit-everybody-will-41165/.
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"A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-who-trims-himself-to-suit-everybody-will-41165/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













