"A man without decision can never be said to belong to himself"
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Selfhood, in Foster's view, is less a private possession than a military asset: you earn it by choosing. "A man without decision" isn't merely indecisive; he's tactically compromised. The line works because it flips the usual assumption that identity is something you discover. For Foster, identity is something you command. Without the capacity to decide, a person becomes a territory others can occupy - family pressure, political fashion, institutional orders, even the pull of comfort. "Belong to himself" is the quiet blade here: it implies that inaction isn't neutral, it's a transfer of ownership.
The intent carries the hard pragmatism of a soldier and statesman shaped by 19th-century American expansion, bureaucracy, and war. Foster served in the Union Army, then spent decades in diplomacy at a moment when the United States was learning how power actually functions: not as ideals, but as choices made under constraint. Decision becomes a moral technology, the mechanism by which you keep your agency intact when events, superiors, or enemies would prefer you drift.
There's also an austere masculinity in the phrasing - "a man" as the unit of responsibility, trained to see hesitation as weakness and resolve as virtue. Read now, the sentence feels like a warning about modern life: algorithms, institutions, and endless options don't steal our freedom by force; they do it by inviting us to defer. Foster's subtext is blunt: if you won't decide, someone else will - and you'll call it fate.
The intent carries the hard pragmatism of a soldier and statesman shaped by 19th-century American expansion, bureaucracy, and war. Foster served in the Union Army, then spent decades in diplomacy at a moment when the United States was learning how power actually functions: not as ideals, but as choices made under constraint. Decision becomes a moral technology, the mechanism by which you keep your agency intact when events, superiors, or enemies would prefer you drift.
There's also an austere masculinity in the phrasing - "a man" as the unit of responsibility, trained to see hesitation as weakness and resolve as virtue. Read now, the sentence feels like a warning about modern life: algorithms, institutions, and endless options don't steal our freedom by force; they do it by inviting us to defer. Foster's subtext is blunt: if you won't decide, someone else will - and you'll call it fate.
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