"A man's best fortune, or his worst, is his wife"
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The subtext is less about romance than governance. In Fuller’s world, the household is a miniature commonwealth, and the wife is imagined as the chief influence within it: manager of finances, maker of heirs, keeper of reputation, regulator of a man’s appetites. That’s why “fortune” does double duty: money and fate, social standing and moral trajectory. The line flatters male agency while quietly conceding male dependence; it pretends the man is the protagonist, but admits the plot is co-authored at home.
Context matters: this is a culture where marriage is central to property, lineage, and religious legitimacy, and where clerical advice often policed domestic behavior as a spiritual battleground. Still, the aphorism carries an anxious misogyny in its symmetry. A wife isn’t granted interiority; she’s a mechanism of blessing or ruin. The brilliance - and the chill - is how smoothly it turns a person into a moral instrument while sounding like common sense.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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| Source | Rejected source: The holy and profane states: By Thomas Fuller (Thomas Fuller, 1841)IA: holyprofanestate0000thom
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