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Daily Inspiration Quote by Thomas Fuller

"A man's best fortune, or his worst, is his wife"

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Domestic life is framed here as destiny, not décor. Fuller, a 17th-century English clergyman with a moralist’s eye for tight aphorisms, compresses an entire social order into one blunt wager: marry well and your life is lifted; marry badly and you’re sunk. The neatness is the point. By making “wife” the hinge of “best fortune” and “worst,” he turns marriage into a providential lottery that feels both pious and practical, the kind of maxim that can be preached from a pulpit and repeated at a table.

The subtext is less about romance than governance. In Fuller’s world, the household is a miniature commonwealth, and the wife is imagined as the chief influence within it: manager of finances, maker of heirs, keeper of reputation, regulator of a man’s appetites. That’s why “fortune” does double duty: money and fate, social standing and moral trajectory. The line flatters male agency while quietly conceding male dependence; it pretends the man is the protagonist, but admits the plot is co-authored at home.

Context matters: this is a culture where marriage is central to property, lineage, and religious legitimacy, and where clerical advice often policed domestic behavior as a spiritual battleground. Still, the aphorism carries an anxious misogyny in its symmetry. A wife isn’t granted interiority; she’s a mechanism of blessing or ruin. The brilliance - and the chill - is how smoothly it turns a person into a moral instrument while sounding like common sense.

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TopicHusband & Wife
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Fuller, Thomas. (n.d.). A man's best fortune, or his worst, is his wife. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-best-fortune-or-his-worst-is-his-wife-2045/

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Thomas Fuller (June 19, 1608 - August 16, 1661) was a Clergyman from England.

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