"A man's delight in looking forward to and hoping for some particular satisfaction is a part of the pleasure flowing out of it, enjoyed in advance. But this is afterward deducted, for the more we look forward to anything the less we enjoy it when it comes"
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The subtext is less “don’t be excited” than “notice how imagination cannibalizes experience.” Anticipation generates a clean, controllable satisfaction: the future can’t disappoint you because you’re writing it. Reality arrives messy, finite, and stubbornly unedited. The more you rehearse an outcome, the less room you leave for surprise - and surprise is what makes pleasure feel alive rather than merely checked off.
Context matters: Schopenhauer is writing in the long shadow of Enlightenment optimism and the early boom of bourgeois comfort, and he’s unimpressed. His broader worldview - that life is driven by an insatiable Will - makes hope feel like another mechanism for keeping us hungry. In modern terms, it reads like an early diagnosis of hype culture: trailers, teasers, wishlists, “manifesting.” We’re trained to live in previews, then wonder why the premiere feels flat.
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Schopenhauer, Arthur. (2026, January 18). A man's delight in looking forward to and hoping for some particular satisfaction is a part of the pleasure flowing out of it, enjoyed in advance. But this is afterward deducted, for the more we look forward to anything the less we enjoy it when it comes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-delight-in-looking-forward-to-and-hoping-375/
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Schopenhauer, Arthur. "A man's delight in looking forward to and hoping for some particular satisfaction is a part of the pleasure flowing out of it, enjoyed in advance. But this is afterward deducted, for the more we look forward to anything the less we enjoy it when it comes." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-delight-in-looking-forward-to-and-hoping-375/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man's delight in looking forward to and hoping for some particular satisfaction is a part of the pleasure flowing out of it, enjoyed in advance. But this is afterward deducted, for the more we look forward to anything the less we enjoy it when it comes." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-delight-in-looking-forward-to-and-hoping-375/. Accessed 14 Feb. 2026.











