"A man's own manner and character is what most becomes him"
About this Quote
The intent is practical, not airy. Cicero is writing from the pressure cooker of late Republican politics, where ambition, patronage, and factional violence turned “virtue” into branding. His broader ethical project (especially in On Duties) treats decorum as a moral technology: the right action is not only right in the abstract; it must be fitting to the agent - their role, temperament, and obligations. Subtext: self-knowledge isn’t self-indulgence. It’s a civic requirement, because mismatched performance breeds hypocrisy, and hypocrisy corrodes trust, the core currency of a republic.
There’s also a sharp warning to climbers and imitators. Trying to “become” someone else - aping a rival’s swagger, adopting a fashionable severity - reads as counterfeit. Cicero’s ideal Roman isn’t the loudest moralist; it’s the person whose presence doesn’t need to audition. The line flatters authenticity, but it’s really about legitimacy: character that shows up consistently becomes its own argument.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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Cicero. "A man's own manner and character is what most becomes him." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-own-manner-and-character-is-what-most-14797/.
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"A man's own manner and character is what most becomes him." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mans-own-manner-and-character-is-what-most-14797/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.












