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"A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away"

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A line like this only works because it’s brazenly domestic about something socially explosive. Wycherley, a Restoration dramatist who made a career out of elegant cruelty, turns adultery into real estate: the mistress as a “little country retreat near the town.” The metaphor flatters and diminishes at once. A retreat is charming, restorative, even tasteful; it’s also property, a place to be used, scheduled, and left behind. He drains the affair of romance and risk and replaces it with logistics.

The specific intent is comic candor with a knife in it. Restoration comedy thrives on saying the quiet part out loud, then pretending the honesty is sophistication. “Not to dwell in constantly” frames fidelity less as a moral choice than as a matter of urban planning. The mistress is an amenity, not a relationship; “only for a night and away” makes secrecy sound like good manners. It’s a guide to compartmentalization dressed up as worldly wisdom.

The subtext is power: men get mobility, women get assigned functions. The country retreat is close enough to be convenient, far enough to be deniable - which is to say, the perfect arrangement for preserving a man’s public respectability while indulging private appetite. That’s the Restoration ethos in miniature: a culture freshly unbuttoned after Puritan restraint, obsessed with surfaces, reputation, and the pleasurable arts of hypocrisy. Wycherley isn’t simply endorsing the cynicism; he’s selling it with a wink, letting the audience enjoy the scandal while recognizing how cold the bargain really is.

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Wycherley, William. (2026, January 17). A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mistress-should-be-like-a-little-country-27636/

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Wycherley, William. "A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mistress-should-be-like-a-little-country-27636/.

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"A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mistress-should-be-like-a-little-country-27636/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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William Wycherley

William Wycherley (1641 AC - January 1, 1716) was a Dramatist from England.

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