"A mother is a mother still, the holiest thing alive"
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Then comes the dare: “The holiest thing alive.” Not “one of” the holiest, not “among the” most sacred - the holiest. It’s a superlative that elevates motherhood above institutions, above clerical authority, above the officially holy. Coleridge, a poet steeped in Christian language and Romantic reverence, is effectively relocating sanctity from church doctrine to embodied care. Holiness isn’t only in scripture or ceremony; it’s in the labor of keeping someone alive, in intimacy that precedes consent and outlasts approval.
The subtext is political as much as emotional. Romanticism loved to crown the “natural” as a rival to the mechanized, hierarchical modern world. Making the mother the pinnacle of living holiness is a quiet critique of the era’s public values: empire, industry, prestige. Coleridge’s line works because it sounds simple while smuggling in a reordering of what society should worship - not power, but the person who gives and sustains life.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mother |
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| Source | Verified source: The Friend (periodical, 1809–1810) (Samuel Taylor Coleridge, 1809)
Evidence: A mother is a mother still, The holiest thing alive.. This line occurs in Coleridge’s poem “The Three Graves” (specifically in the portion often referred to as a “Continuation of The Three Graves”), where it appears as: “Beneath the foulest mother's curse No child could ever thrive: A mother is a mother still, The holiest thing alive.” ([gutenberg.org](https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/29091.html.images)) For FIRST publication: editorial/bibliographical notes in Coleridge’s collected poetical works state that “The Three Graves” was included in Coleridge’s periodical The Friend in the autumn of 1809 (Sept.–Nov. 1809). ([gutenberg.org](https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/29091.html.images)) A separate critical-heritage source explicitly identifies September 21, 1809 as the publication date in The Friend for the (then-published) portion of “The Three Graves.” ([vdoc.pub](https://vdoc.pub/documents/the-collected-critical-heritage-i-samuel-taylor-coleridge-the-critical-heritage-volume-1-1794-1834-tu17j42ccs00?utm_source=openai)) However: I have not, in the sources retrieved here, a scanned image of the original 1809 issue of The Friend showing this exact line on the page (i.e., I can verify the line in Coleridge’s poetry text, but I cannot provide an exact page number in the 1809 periodical issue itself from the primary artifact). So: primary-work attribution is solid, but the exact ‘issue/page’ in the 1809 printing is not fully verified from a facsimile in this search. Other candidates (1) The poems of Samuel Taylor Coleridge, with a prefatory no... (Samuel Taylor [poetical works] Coleridge, 1884) compilation95.0% Samuel Taylor [poetical works] Coleridge Joseph Skipsey. But when they to the churchyard came , I've heard poor ... A... |
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