"A mother's got to be there to raise the children. That's all there is to it. I feel badly for those mothers who work hard, and can't do it all the time"
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The sympathy he offers working mothers is also a quiet indictment. “I feel badly for those mothers who work hard” positions employment as an unfortunate detour from real motherhood, not as labor that keeps families housed and fed. That’s the subtext: care work is sacred, wage work is regrettable, and the person who should absorb the sacrifice is the mother. Fathers are conspicuously absent from the moral equation, which is precisely how the line maintains its old-school clarity. It turns a structural problem (childcare costs, wage stagnation, lack of paid leave) into an individual moral test.
Contextually, this reads like a generational snapshot from a mid-century masculinity that still expects a single-income household to be the default. In a 21st-century landscape where most families can’t afford that fantasy, the quote functions less as guidance than as a pressure point: it flatters an ideal of maternal devotion while quietly shaming the women who can’t afford to perform it full time.
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Braeden, Eric. (n.d.). A mother's got to be there to raise the children. That's all there is to it. I feel badly for those mothers who work hard, and can't do it all the time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-got-to-be-there-to-raise-the-children-42043/
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Braeden, Eric. "A mother's got to be there to raise the children. That's all there is to it. I feel badly for those mothers who work hard, and can't do it all the time." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-got-to-be-there-to-raise-the-children-42043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A mother's got to be there to raise the children. That's all there is to it. I feel badly for those mothers who work hard, and can't do it all the time." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-got-to-be-there-to-raise-the-children-42043/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.





