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Motherhood Quote by Honore de Balzac

"A mother's life, you see, is one long succession of dramas, now soft and tender, now terrible. Not an hour but has its joys and fears"

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Balzac compresses motherhood into a novelist's raw material: plot, pacing, stakes. The line works because it refuses the sentimental still life. A mother's life isn't framed as serene devotion but as serial crisis management, a continuous narrative engine where tenderness and terror trade places without notice. "Succession of dramas" reads like a sly admission from a professional storyteller: domestic life is not the quiet opposite of history; it's a daily theater with consequences that never pause.

The pivot - "now soft and tender, now terrible" - is doing moral and emotional work. Balzac doesn't let "tender" settle into virtue-signaling; he immediately yokes it to the possibility of catastrophe. That pairing exposes the subtext most polite language skirts: love is an accelerant for fear. The more you care, the more the world can hurt you, hourly. His blunt timekeeping - "Not an hour" - intensifies it. Motherhood becomes a schedule of micro-reckonings, where joy is real but never unaccompanied, and fear isn't hysteria but information.

Context matters: Balzac is writing in a 19th-century France that idealized maternity as a civic duty and a moral ornament, even as mothers had limited legal power, high child mortality, and punishing social scrutiny. Against that backdrop, this sentence is almost insurgent. It grants mothers interior complexity and acknowledges the volatility of care, turning what society treated as a stable role into an unstable, relentless lived experience.

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Balzac, Honore de. (2026, January 18). A mother's life, you see, is one long succession of dramas, now soft and tender, now terrible. Not an hour but has its joys and fears. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-life-you-see-is-one-long-succession-of-4187/

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Balzac, Honore de. "A mother's life, you see, is one long succession of dramas, now soft and tender, now terrible. Not an hour but has its joys and fears." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-life-you-see-is-one-long-succession-of-4187/.

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"A mother's life, you see, is one long succession of dramas, now soft and tender, now terrible. Not an hour but has its joys and fears." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-mothers-life-you-see-is-one-long-succession-of-4187/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Honore de Balzac

Honore de Balzac (May 20, 1799 - August 18, 1850) was a Novelist from France.

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