"A neurosis is a secret that you don't know you are keeping"
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The sly genius sits in the clause "that you don't know you are keeping". Secrets usually require intention; you choose to conceal. Tynan argues the opposite: the psyche can run a sophisticated disinformation campaign without your consent. It's Freudian, but sharpened for a postwar public learning to talk about therapy while still flinching from it. The unconscious isn't mystical here; it's bureaucratic. It withholds, misfiles, leaks through symptoms. The neurosis becomes a form of inadvertent self-protection, a compromise between what you can admit and what you can't survive admitting yet.
As a critic, Tynan also sneaks in an aesthetic claim: our inner life behaves like a script. Neurosis isn't just pain, it's structure - repetition, avoidance, rituals, the same scene played again with different props. The barb is that insight doesn't merely "heal"; it changes the genre. Once the secret becomes speakable, the symptom loses its job.
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"A neurosis is a secret that you don't know you are keeping." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-neurosis-is-a-secret-that-you-dont-know-you-are-146708/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










