"A person is ruined by taking the measure of other persons"
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That severity fits the larger Buddhist project. Much of Buddhist teaching pushes against attachment, ego, and the illusions that keep people trapped in dissatisfaction. Comparison is one of the most efficient machines for producing suffering because it hardens the fiction of a separate, grasping self. You are no longer simply living; you are constantly locating yourself against others: richer, wiser, more admired, less secure. The mind starts feeding on distinction.
What gives the line its force is its compression. "Ruined" is stronger than "misled" or "made unhappy". It implies corrosion of character. Comparison does not just distort perception; it deforms the person doing it. The subtext is political as well as personal. In a world structured by status, caste, prestige, and rivalry, refusing to measure others is a quiet revolt against the social logic of hierarchy.
That is why the line still lands with such force now. Social media has industrialized "taking the measure" of other persons. Buddha's warning reads less like abstraction than diagnosis: the more obsessively we appraise other lives, the more uninhabitable our own becomes.
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