"A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves"
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The craftsmanship is in the causal chain. Beecher doesn’t moralize with thunder; he diagnoses. “Seldom” is doing quiet work, leaving room for human complexity while still landing the indictment. The punch comes from the final clause: pride isn’t merely arrogance, it’s a perception problem. The proud man “never thinks” he gets enough, which means gratitude can’t take root because the mind has pre-labeled every outcome as inadequate.
Context matters. Beecher was a 19th-century American clergyman steeped in Protestant moral psychology, preaching to a society intoxicated with self-making, status, and visible success. In that world, pride isn’t just a private sin; it’s a civic temperament that corrodes community. Gratitude binds people together by admitting dependence and contingency. Beecher’s subtext is pastoral and political: if you want a healthier soul or a healthier public life, you have to stop treating life as a meritocracy that keeps underpaying you.
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Beecher, Henry Ward. (2026, January 15). A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/
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Beecher, Henry Ward. "A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/.
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"A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












