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Daily Inspiration Quote by Henry Ward Beecher

"A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves"

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Beecher skewers pride by treating it less like a harmless self-esteem boost and more like a rigged accounting system. The line turns on a sharp psychological mechanism: the proud person is always running a private ledger where credit is infinite and payment is always short. Gratitude requires the ability to register unearned benefit; pride, as Beecher frames it, makes everything feel earned in advance. If you believe you are owed the world, every gift arrives as a partial installment on a larger debt.

The craftsmanship is in the causal chain. Beecher doesn’t moralize with thunder; he diagnoses. “Seldom” is doing quiet work, leaving room for human complexity while still landing the indictment. The punch comes from the final clause: pride isn’t merely arrogance, it’s a perception problem. The proud man “never thinks” he gets enough, which means gratitude can’t take root because the mind has pre-labeled every outcome as inadequate.

Context matters. Beecher was a 19th-century American clergyman steeped in Protestant moral psychology, preaching to a society intoxicated with self-making, status, and visible success. In that world, pride isn’t just a private sin; it’s a civic temperament that corrodes community. Gratitude binds people together by admitting dependence and contingency. Beecher’s subtext is pastoral and political: if you want a healthier soul or a healthier public life, you have to stop treating life as a meritocracy that keeps underpaying you.

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Beecher, Henry Ward. (2026, January 15). A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/

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Beecher, Henry Ward. "A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/.

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"A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-proud-man-is-seldom-a-grateful-man-for-he-never-87154/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Henry Ward Beecher

Henry Ward Beecher (June 24, 1813 - March 8, 1887) was a Clergyman from USA.

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