"A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars"
About this Quote
The subtext is a quiet argument with two cultural scripts at once: the demand that women be unbreakable, and the competing demand that they remain unmarked. Simon collapses that contradiction by insisting that scars don't disqualify you from being "strong"; they're part of the credential. The line also shifts agency back to the survivor. The war happens, but the acceptance is active, a decision not to spend a life in litigation with the past.
"Ennobled" is the risky, interesting verb here. It doesn't claim the suffering was good or deserved; it claims the survivor can alchemize it into a kind of dignity. Coming from a musician whose work has long braided vulnerability with self-possession, the quote reads like an artist's credo: you take the raw material you didn't ask for and turn it into something that stands up.
Contextually, it lands in a late-20th/early-21st-century moment when confession became currency and "healing" became a genre. Simon's twist is to keep the grit. Not "healed", not "fixed" - scarred, visible, and still worthy of reverence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Simon, Carly. (2026, January 15). A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/
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Simon, Carly. "A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








