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War & Peace Quote by Carly Simon

"A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars"

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Strength, in Carly Simon's framing, isn't the glossy kind sold as empowerment merchandise. It's the kind you earn when life has taken a swing at you and you don't edit the evidence. "Accepts the war she went through" refuses the tidy language of "challenges" or "journey" and names trauma for what it feels like: a sustained campaign. That word choice matters. It honors endurance without romanticizing the violence that made endurance necessary.

The subtext is a quiet argument with two cultural scripts at once: the demand that women be unbreakable, and the competing demand that they remain unmarked. Simon collapses that contradiction by insisting that scars don't disqualify you from being "strong"; they're part of the credential. The line also shifts agency back to the survivor. The war happens, but the acceptance is active, a decision not to spend a life in litigation with the past.

"Ennobled" is the risky, interesting verb here. It doesn't claim the suffering was good or deserved; it claims the survivor can alchemize it into a kind of dignity. Coming from a musician whose work has long braided vulnerability with self-possession, the quote reads like an artist's credo: you take the raw material you didn't ask for and turn it into something that stands up.

Contextually, it lands in a late-20th/early-21st-century moment when confession became currency and "healing" became a genre. Simon's twist is to keep the grit. Not "healed", not "fixed" - scarred, visible, and still worthy of reverence.

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Simon, Carly. (2026, January 15). A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/

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Simon, Carly. "A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/.

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"A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-really-strong-woman-accepts-the-war-she-went-85631/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Carly Simon (born June 25, 1945) is a Musician from USA.

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