"A relationship is lovely if you're happy, comfortable in it and you really like the person. I can think of nothing better. But there's nothing worse than having a relationship in which you feel no interest"
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Then she flips it, hard. The “nothing worse” isn’t betrayal or heartbreak; it’s boredom, dead attention, the slow disappearance of curiosity. “No interest” is a brutal phrase because it’s emotionally bloodless. It suggests not a fight but a vacancy. York is pointing to the quiet horror of staying: the relationship that continues by habit, politeness, or fear, long after desire or engagement has left the room. The subtext is that pain is at least alive; indifference is an extinction.
As an actress working through decades when women were often expected to be agreeable keepers of domestic stability, York’s framing reads like a small act of rebellion. She doesn’t romanticize endurance. She doesn’t treat commitment as inherently virtuous. The intent feels less like advice than permission: you’re not shallow for needing interest, and you’re not cruel for refusing a life numbed by “comfortable” without connection. In a culture that often confuses longevity with success, York argues for a different metric: aliveness.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
York, Susannah. (2026, January 16). A relationship is lovely if you're happy, comfortable in it and you really like the person. I can think of nothing better. But there's nothing worse than having a relationship in which you feel no interest. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-relationship-is-lovely-if-youre-happy-129261/
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York, Susannah. "A relationship is lovely if you're happy, comfortable in it and you really like the person. I can think of nothing better. But there's nothing worse than having a relationship in which you feel no interest." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-relationship-is-lovely-if-youre-happy-129261/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A relationship is lovely if you're happy, comfortable in it and you really like the person. I can think of nothing better. But there's nothing worse than having a relationship in which you feel no interest." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-relationship-is-lovely-if-youre-happy-129261/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


