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Love & Passion Quote by Marilyn Monroe

"A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing"

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Monroe’s line lands like a velvet slap: soft delivery, brutal diagnosis. “A sex symbol” sounds like praise until she flips it into “a thing,” exposing the trick at the heart of celebrity culture. The phrase doesn’t just complain about being desired; it protests being converted into an object that can be marketed, consumed, and replaced. In four words - “I just hate to be a thing” - she collapses the distance between glamour and dehumanization.

The intent is defensive, but not coy. Monroe is refusing the bargain that mid-century Hollywood offered women: you can have attention, but only if you surrender personhood. “Becomes” is key. It frames objectification as a process, not a natural state. A woman isn’t born a “thing”; she’s made into one by studios, photographers, gossip columns, and audiences who treat her body as a public utility. The subtext is weary self-awareness: she knows the image is profitable, she knows she benefits from it, and she still wants out. That contradiction is the point.

Context makes it sharper. Monroe’s career was built on a carefully engineered persona - breathy, bright, available - while her real life was marked by contracts, control, and relentless scrutiny. The line reads as an early, compact critique of what we now call the male gaze, delivered from inside the machine. She’s not asking to be seen as “more than” sexy; she’s asking to be seen as human while being sexy. That’s a harder demand, and it’s why the quote still stings.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Marilyn. (2026, January 18). A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-sex-symbol-becomes-a-thing-i-just-hate-to-be-a-13701/

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Monroe, Marilyn. "A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-sex-symbol-becomes-a-thing-i-just-hate-to-be-a-13701/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A sex symbol becomes a thing. I just hate to be a thing." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-sex-symbol-becomes-a-thing-i-just-hate-to-be-a-13701/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Marilyn Monroe (June 1, 1926 - August 5, 1962) was a Actress from USA.

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