"A sponge has that much absorbent capability and after a while you can pour water over it and nothing stays"
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The subtext is about training and artistry as much as it is about emotion. Musicians are professional absorbers: taking in criticism, repertoire, technique, other people’s interpretations, the noise of travel, the pressure of performance. Early on, you soak it all up and it “stays” - it becomes muscle memory, taste, identity. Later, the same stream of inputs slides off. Not because you’ve grown indifferent, but because the system is full, exhausted, or self-protecting.
There’s also a quiet warning aimed at teachers, institutions, and audiences who keep “pouring water” - more rehearsals, more feedback, more expectations - assuming effort alone guarantees growth. Perlman implies a different ethic: pacing, rest, and selectivity aren’t luxuries; they’re prerequisites for retention. The metaphor lands because it’s blunt, almost clinical, yet tender in its refusal to moralize. It lets people admit, without shame, that sometimes you’re not unmotivated - you’re saturated.
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"A sponge has that much absorbent capability and after a while you can pour water over it and nothing stays." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-sponge-has-that-much-absorbent-capability-and-158498/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







