"A sweetheart is a bottle of wine, a wife is a wine bottle"
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The subtext is classic Baudelairean modernity: desire mixed with disgust, sensuality shadowed by boredom. He’s not just being misogynist for sport (though the misogyny is real); he’s dramatizing a male psyche that chases intensity and then resents the structures that make life livable. Marriage, in this frame, is the bourgeois technology that stabilizes passion into routine. The “bottle” isn’t only a woman; it’s the institution, the contract, the domestic script that turns “wine” from a thrill into a household supply.
Context matters: mid-19th-century Paris, where bohemian identity often defined itself against respectability, and where women were frequently split in art into muse/courtesan versus spouse/manager. Baudelaire’s brilliance is to compress that whole double standard into a single image you can’t unsee. It works because it’s witty enough to tempt agreement, then revealing enough to indict the speaker: the line exposes how easily admiration becomes ownership once love starts looking like permanence.
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