"A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else"
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Wein’s phrasing also smuggles in a moral standard without sounding preachy. “True” sets a quiet test; “there for you” sounds warm until the sentence pivots on “rather,” admitting what people rarely confess out loud: support can be a burden. That honesty gives the quote its credibility. It doesn’t flatter the reader with fantasies of constant emotional availability; it asks whether your care survives boredom, fatigue, awkward hospitals, long drives, bad news, and the messy logistics that don’t make good anecdotes.
Coming from a cartoonist - and a major comics writer who built teams and unlikely alliances into stories (think misfits choosing each other under pressure) - the sentiment reads like a narrative rule: character is revealed when the scene is unglamorous. In comics, the heroic moment isn’t just the punch; it’s the panel where someone stays behind. Wein turns that into a social ethic. Friendship, in his view, isn’t a vibe. It’s attendance.
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| Topic | Best Friend |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wein, Len. (2026, January 17). A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-is-there-for-you-69300/
Chicago Style
Wein, Len. "A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-is-there-for-you-69300/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-is-there-for-you-69300/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







