"A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else"
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Loyalty gets romanticized as effortless, but Len Wein makes it feel stubborn, inconvenient, and therefore real. “A true friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be anywhere else” reframes friendship as an active choice made against the grain of mood, schedule, and self-interest. The line’s little sting is the point: if you only show up when you feel like it, you’re not proving devotion, you’re just confirming convenience.
Wein’s phrasing also smuggles in a moral standard without sounding preachy. “True” sets a quiet test; “there for you” sounds warm until the sentence pivots on “rather,” admitting what people rarely confess out loud: support can be a burden. That honesty gives the quote its credibility. It doesn’t flatter the reader with fantasies of constant emotional availability; it asks whether your care survives boredom, fatigue, awkward hospitals, long drives, bad news, and the messy logistics that don’t make good anecdotes.
Coming from a cartoonist - and a major comics writer who built teams and unlikely alliances into stories (think misfits choosing each other under pressure) - the sentiment reads like a narrative rule: character is revealed when the scene is unglamorous. In comics, the heroic moment isn’t just the punch; it’s the panel where someone stays behind. Wein turns that into a social ethic. Friendship, in his view, isn’t a vibe. It’s attendance.
Wein’s phrasing also smuggles in a moral standard without sounding preachy. “True” sets a quiet test; “there for you” sounds warm until the sentence pivots on “rather,” admitting what people rarely confess out loud: support can be a burden. That honesty gives the quote its credibility. It doesn’t flatter the reader with fantasies of constant emotional availability; it asks whether your care survives boredom, fatigue, awkward hospitals, long drives, bad news, and the messy logistics that don’t make good anecdotes.
Coming from a cartoonist - and a major comics writer who built teams and unlikely alliances into stories (think misfits choosing each other under pressure) - the sentiment reads like a narrative rule: character is revealed when the scene is unglamorous. In comics, the heroic moment isn’t just the punch; it’s the panel where someone stays behind. Wein turns that into a social ethic. Friendship, in his view, isn’t a vibe. It’s attendance.
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| Topic | Best Friend |
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