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Daily Inspiration Quote by Bernard Meltzer

"A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg, even though he knows that you are slightly cracked"

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Friendship, Meltzer suggests, isn’t built on ignorance; it’s built on accurate perception and a decision to stay anyway. The joke lands because it flips the usual compliment. You’re not a “perfect egg,” gleaming and unblemished. You’re “slightly cracked” - flawed in the small, familiar ways that show up in real life: the bad habit, the sharp edge in a bad mood, the mistake you keep making after you promised you wouldn’t. The friend isn’t a gullible cheerleader. He sees the crack. He just refuses to treat it as the whole story.

The “good egg” idiom carries a cozy, everyday moral vocabulary: decency, reliability, basic human worth. Meltzer pairs it with a lightly comic image of damage, which smuggles in a tougher claim about intimacy. Real friends aren’t doing PR for you; they’re doing triage. They know the evidence against you and still argue, quietly, for your better character - not in court, but in the daily jury of other people’s opinions and your own self-contempt.

Coming from a lawyer, the subtext sharpens. Lawyers live amid competing narratives and unflattering facts. Meltzer’s line reads like a verdict delivered with a wink: yes, there are exhibits A through F, and yes, you’re still essentially decent. It’s affectionate cynicism, the kind that assumes everyone is a little broken and treats loyalty as a mature choice rather than a naive belief.

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Meltzer, Bernard. (2026, February 19). A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg, even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-thinks-that-you-are-40236/

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Meltzer, Bernard. "A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg, even though he knows that you are slightly cracked." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-thinks-that-you-are-40236/.

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"A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg, even though he knows that you are slightly cracked." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-friend-is-someone-who-thinks-that-you-are-40236/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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Bernard Meltzer (May 2, 1916 - March 25, 1998) was a Lawyer from USA.

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