"A true man never frets about his place in the world, but just slides into it by the gravitation of his nature, and swings there as easily as a star"
About this Quote
As a 19th-century clergyman, Chapin is writing in an America jittery with mobility and anxious self-making - industrialization, urban churn, and a culture beginning to prize ambition as a civic religion. His counterprogram is spiritualized composure. Instead of the Protestant ethic's restless proving, he offers a sanctified confidence that looks suspiciously like social stability: your "place" is not a negotiation, it's an orbit.
The subtext is also gendered discipline. "Never frets" reads like advice and policing at once, a warning against the kinds of vulnerability associated (then and often now) with insufficiency: doubt, softness, visible worry. Calling this state "true" turns temperament into test. If you are anxious about rank, you are not merely insecure; you are failing at manhood.
There is comfort here - a promise that authenticity will be recognized. There is also quiet coercion: if nature gravitates you into a role, resisting that role becomes not just impractical but unnatural.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Chapin, Edwin Hubbel. (2026, January 17). A true man never frets about his place in the world, but just slides into it by the gravitation of his nature, and swings there as easily as a star. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-man-never-frets-about-his-place-in-the-46169/
Chicago Style
Chapin, Edwin Hubbel. "A true man never frets about his place in the world, but just slides into it by the gravitation of his nature, and swings there as easily as a star." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-man-never-frets-about-his-place-in-the-46169/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A true man never frets about his place in the world, but just slides into it by the gravitation of his nature, and swings there as easily as a star." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-true-man-never-frets-about-his-place-in-the-46169/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











