"A truly strong person does not need the approval of others, any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep"
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The subtext is about hierarchy and misaligned audiences. Sheep are not just "other people"; they're stand-ins for the crowd, for conventional opinion, for those who can't recognize or reward what is rare. A lion that waits for sheep to applaud is no longer a lion; it's a performer trapped in the pen, letting the least qualified judges set its sense of self. The metaphor also carries a warning about self-betrayal: the more you outsource your validation, the more you edit your instincts to stay palatable.
Context matters here. Howard's work sits in the self-help/spiritual-psychology lane, suspicious of ego and social hypnosis. The line isn't an excuse for arrogance so much as a dare to grow up emotionally: if your identity requires constant external confirmation, you can be controlled with praise or threatened with disapproval. Real strength, he suggests, is freedom from that leash.
Quote Details
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| Source | Later attribution: Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) modern compilationISBN: 9780977339105 · ID: -T3QhPjIxhIC
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... A truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep . ~ Vernon Howard , 1918-1992 ~ When we really love and accept and approve of ourselves exactly as we are , then everything in ... |
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Howard, Vernon. "A truly strong person does not need the approval of others, any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep." FixQuotes. March 28, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-truly-strong-person-does-not-need-the-approval-86738/.
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"A truly strong person does not need the approval of others, any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep." FixQuotes, 28 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-truly-strong-person-does-not-need-the-approval-86738/. Accessed 7 Apr. 2026.













