"A wise man is superior to any insults which can be put upon him, and the best reply to unseemly behavior is patience and moderation"
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The line works because it treats restraint as dominance, not weakness. In Moliere’s comedies, the hotheaded reply is always the trap: it escalates the farce, exposes vanity, and hands the offender control of the scene. Patience and moderation aren’t saintly virtues so much as tactical refusals to become a supporting actor in someone else’s drama. You don’t win by delivering the perfect clapback; you win by denying the heckler the sequel.
Context matters: 17th-century France was thick with etiquette, patronage, and punitive moralism. Moliere himself endured clerical attacks and courtly whispers; “unseemly behavior” is a polite phrase for real social hazard. The subtext is almost cynical: the world rewards composure because composure reads as status. If you can absorb insult without flinching, you signal that the insult can’t reach you - that you’re above the small stage where it was meant to play.
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"A wise man is superior to any insults which can be put upon him, and the best reply to unseemly behavior is patience and moderation." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-wise-man-is-superior-to-any-insults-which-can-6840/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.








