"A woman isn't complete without a man. But where do you find a man - a real man - these days?"
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The intent is less confession than commentary. Coming from Bacall, whose screen persona was all cool nerve and self-possession, the line reads as a performance of femininity that refuses to be cornered by it. She’s signaling a cultural mood where women are expected to want marriage, but are also newly positioned to judge the men on offer. The question isn’t “Am I incomplete?” It’s “Why are the choices so thin, and why is my wholeness tethered to them?”
Context matters: classic Hollywood sold heterosexual coupling as destiny while simultaneously packaging stars like Bacall as icons of independence. The subtext is that “completion” is a story society tells women, and if women are going to be judged by it, then men should be judged too. The line lands because it smuggles critique inside a flirtation, turning a patriarchal premise into a punchline at patriarchy’s expense.
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Bacall, Lauren. (2026, January 16). A woman isn't complete without a man. But where do you find a man - a real man - these days? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-isnt-complete-without-a-man-but-where-do-122012/
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Bacall, Lauren. "A woman isn't complete without a man. But where do you find a man - a real man - these days?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-isnt-complete-without-a-man-but-where-do-122012/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A woman isn't complete without a man. But where do you find a man - a real man - these days?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-isnt-complete-without-a-man-but-where-do-122012/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.









