"A woman today is good, or she is bad, according to the way she does a thing - and not because of the thing itself"
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The intent is bluntly diagnostic. Shearer isn’t arguing that women are actually good or bad; she’s pointing at a social courtroom that decides the verdict based on performance. “According to the way she does a thing” is the tell. It suggests that women are policed less for actions than for how those actions read to others: whether they soothe the audience, flatter male authority, preserve respectability. If she transgresses with the “right” tone - contrition, elegance, invisibility - she can remain “good.” If she transgresses with confidence or pleasure, she becomes “bad,” even when the act is identical.
The subtext is gendered asymmetry as etiquette. Men are allowed motive; women are assigned a vibe. Shearer’s phrasing also quietly implicates the culture industry: celebrity teaches the public how to judge women’s behavior as spectacle. Morality becomes a lighting choice, and the woman learns that the harshest punishment isn’t for doing the wrong thing; it’s for refusing to do it in the approved way.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shearer, Norma. (2026, January 17). A woman today is good, or she is bad, according to the way she does a thing - and not because of the thing itself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-today-is-good-or-she-is-bad-according-to-75488/
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Shearer, Norma. "A woman today is good, or she is bad, according to the way she does a thing - and not because of the thing itself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-today-is-good-or-she-is-bad-according-to-75488/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A woman today is good, or she is bad, according to the way she does a thing - and not because of the thing itself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-woman-today-is-good-or-she-is-bad-according-to-75488/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.












