"Abuse a man unjustly, and you will make friends for him"
About this Quote
As a clergyman writing in the early-to-mid 20th century, Horton would have watched reputations rise and fall in the pulpit, in politics, and in the press - all arenas where sanctimony can dress up as righteousness. The quote reads like pastoral counsel to would-be “correctors”: if your rebuke is performative or disproportionate, you don’t just sin; you miscalculate. You hand your opponent an asset: community.
The subtext is quietly cynical about human nature in groups. People don’t always rally around virtue; they rally around perceived fairness. Even those indifferent to the accused can become indignant at the accuser, because unjust abuse signals something uglier than the target’s alleged flaw: it signals the abuser’s appetite for domination. Horton’s warning is also a strategy note for reformers: persuasion dies when contempt enters the room, and the mob you build may end up protecting the very person you wanted to shame.
Quote Details
| Topic | Justice |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Horton, Douglas. (n.d.). Abuse a man unjustly, and you will make friends for him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-a-man-unjustly-and-you-will-make-friends-67812/
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Horton, Douglas. "Abuse a man unjustly, and you will make friends for him." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-a-man-unjustly-and-you-will-make-friends-67812/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Abuse a man unjustly, and you will make friends for him." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-a-man-unjustly-and-you-will-make-friends-67812/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








