"Abuse if you slight it, will gradually die away; but if you show yourself irritated, you will be thought to have deserved it"
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The subtext is darker: public perception doesn’t merely observe emotion, it prosecutes it. Irritation is interpreted as confession. The audience is invited to notice how easily a crowd moralizes cruelty after the fact. Once you react, the abusers gain a retroactive alibi: you “deserved it.” Tacitus is diagnosing the perverse logic of political culture, where the victim’s visible pain becomes evidence against them, and composure becomes the only safe rebuttal.
Context matters because Tacitus wrote under the long shadow of the early Empire, when speech was policed, rumor substituted for policy debate, and survival depended on reading the room as much as reading the law. The sentence doubles as historical reportage and survival manual: in a system that rewards predators, the first rule is never let them see where you bleed.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tacitus. (2026, January 16). Abuse if you slight it, will gradually die away; but if you show yourself irritated, you will be thought to have deserved it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-if-you-slight-it-will-gradually-die-away-99304/
Chicago Style
Tacitus. "Abuse if you slight it, will gradually die away; but if you show yourself irritated, you will be thought to have deserved it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-if-you-slight-it-will-gradually-die-away-99304/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Abuse if you slight it, will gradually die away; but if you show yourself irritated, you will be thought to have deserved it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/abuse-if-you-slight-it-will-gradually-die-away-99304/. Accessed 14 Feb. 2026.






