"Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets"
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“You are you and that is the beginning and the end” carries the statesman’s worldview: identity as a fixed asset, not a project. In realpolitik, you don’t get purity; you get trade-offs. You don’t get to be loved; you try to be effective. The subtext is almost prosecutorial: stop pleading, stop auditioning for absolution, stop pretending you’re other than the person who made those calls. “No apologies, no regrets” is less an ethical stance than a psychological one - a way to keep moving when the ledger will never balance cleanly.
Context matters because Kissinger became a symbol as much as a policymaker. For admirers, this sounds like steel: clarity in a world of sanctimony. For critics, it’s the final tell: a cultivated immunity to remorse. Either way, the intent is unmistakable: accept the totality, because history won’t wait for your self-revision.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kissinger, Henry A. (2026, January 15). Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/accept-everything-about-yourself-i-mean-14636/
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Kissinger, Henry A. "Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/accept-everything-about-yourself-i-mean-14636/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/accept-everything-about-yourself-i-mean-14636/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









