"Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons"
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The subtext is that these lessons aren’t natural. They’re “life-altering” because they force a re-ordering of the ego: acceptance means letting reality be real, tolerance means staying in the room with difference or disappointment, forgiveness means refusing to keep paying interest on old harm. Put together, they form a quiet theory of how people age into peace - not by winning, but by loosening their grip.
Coming from an actress, the context matters. Lange’s career has been built on inhabiting complicated women, the kind of characters culture often punishes rather than understands. Acting is basically a long practice in tolerance and forgiveness: you empathize with people you might not admire; you accept the script you’re given; you forgive the character, and sometimes the audience, for their judgments. It’s also a backstage comment on fame and family life, where resentment can become a lifestyle. Lange’s intent feels less like moral instruction and more like a field report: these are the attitudes that keep you human when life tries to harden you.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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Lange, Jessica. (2026, January 15). Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/acceptance-and-tolerance-and-forgiveness-those-80296/
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Lange, Jessica. "Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/acceptance-and-tolerance-and-forgiveness-those-80296/.
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"Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/acceptance-and-tolerance-and-forgiveness-those-80296/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




