"Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way you act"
About this Quote
The intent is pragmatic, almost monastic: don’t wait for authenticity to rescue you. If you want to be kinder, braver, steadier, start by doing the outward behaviors of that person. Cohen is wagering that identity is less a hidden truth than a habit you rehearse into being. The subtext is darker: the self is porous, suggestible, and frequently unreliable. “Soon you’ll be” hints at a quiet manipulation - of your own psychology, of your fate - where willpower doesn’t come as a thunderbolt but as repetition.
Context matters. Cohen lived in the tension between stage persona and private struggle, between religious yearning and earthly mess, and he understood that performance can be a form of honesty rather than its opposite. The quote lands as a secular prayer for people who feel stuck: if you can’t change your feelings, change your posture; if you can’t summon conviction, borrow the motions of it. Over time, the mask doesn’t fall off - it fuses, and you become the thing you practiced.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cohen, Leonard. (2026, January 15). Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way you act. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/act-the-way-youd-like-to-be-and-soon-youll-be-the-161199/
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Cohen, Leonard. "Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way you act." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/act-the-way-youd-like-to-be-and-soon-youll-be-the-161199/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way you act." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/act-the-way-youd-like-to-be-and-soon-youll-be-the-161199/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









