"Action, reaction, motivation, emotion, all have to come from the characters. Writing a love scene requires the same elements from the writer as any other"
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Roberts is quietly demystifying the one scene type that tends to get over-lit in the cultural imagination: the love scene as either sacred confession or automatic steam. Her point is almost craft-brutal. Romance isn’t a genre exemption; it’s a stress test. If action, reaction, motivation, and emotion don’t originate in character, then intimacy becomes choreography pasted onto bodies, not a consequence of two specific people colliding.
The intent here is disciplinary. Roberts is pushing back against the lazy assumption that love scenes are “special” writing that runs on mood, euphemism, or heat alone. She treats them as narrative machinery: desire must be earned by the same causal chain that powers a fight scene or a betrayal. That’s a subtle rebuke to both puritan squeamishness (sex as a taboo set piece) and to formula (sex as a required beat). In Roberts’s framing, the only thing that makes a love scene “romantic” is that it reveals character under pressure, when defenses drop and self-mythologies wobble.
The subtext is also a defense of romance as serious workmanship. Roberts has spent a career in a field often patronized as escapism; this quote insists that the most intimate pages demand the most rigorous accountability to motive. It’s not about writing bodies; it’s about writing choices. The cultural context matters: romance has long been judged by its “spice” level rather than its psychological precision. Roberts redirects the conversation toward what actually lasts on the page: specificity, consequence, and the unmistakable feeling that these characters could not have done anything else.
The intent here is disciplinary. Roberts is pushing back against the lazy assumption that love scenes are “special” writing that runs on mood, euphemism, or heat alone. She treats them as narrative machinery: desire must be earned by the same causal chain that powers a fight scene or a betrayal. That’s a subtle rebuke to both puritan squeamishness (sex as a taboo set piece) and to formula (sex as a required beat). In Roberts’s framing, the only thing that makes a love scene “romantic” is that it reveals character under pressure, when defenses drop and self-mythologies wobble.
The subtext is also a defense of romance as serious workmanship. Roberts has spent a career in a field often patronized as escapism; this quote insists that the most intimate pages demand the most rigorous accountability to motive. It’s not about writing bodies; it’s about writing choices. The cultural context matters: romance has long been judged by its “spice” level rather than its psychological precision. Roberts redirects the conversation toward what actually lasts on the page: specificity, consequence, and the unmistakable feeling that these characters could not have done anything else.
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