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Daily Inspiration Quote by Delta Burke

"Actually, I think it's interesting that when I put the weight on, I was already with him. I don't know, maybe I felt safe. And he likes me like this. He likes me whatever size I am"

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There’s a quietly radical kind of honesty in the way Delta Burke ties weight gain to safety, not failure. In a culture that treats a woman’s body like a public résumé, she flips the narrative: the pounds arrive not as a moral lapse but as a byproduct of feeling held. That’s the subtext doing the heavy lifting. “Maybe I felt safe” isn’t an excuse; it’s a diagnosis of how hypervigilance works. When you’re no longer auditioning for approval, the compulsions that keep you “camera-ready” can loosen. That can look like freedom, and it can also look like vulnerability.

The line “And he likes me like this” is both tender and defensive, because it answers an accusation before it’s spoken. Burke is anticipating the judgment baked into celebrity culture: if your body changes, your desirability must be renegotiated, your relationship re-litigated. She refuses that premise. The repetition in “He likes me like this. He likes me whatever size I am” reads like self-soothing, a mantra aimed as much inward as at any interviewer. It’s love, but it’s also a demand for baseline respect.

Context matters: Burke became a high-profile target of body policing in the late 80s and early 90s, when tabloid “before-and-after” cruelty passed for entertainment news. Her phrasing pushes back without preaching. It offers a different plotline: intimacy can be the place you stop performing, and that, for better or worse, shows up on the body.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burke, Delta. (2026, January 17). Actually, I think it's interesting that when I put the weight on, I was already with him. I don't know, maybe I felt safe. And he likes me like this. He likes me whatever size I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/actually-i-think-its-interesting-that-when-i-put-42711/

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Burke, Delta. "Actually, I think it's interesting that when I put the weight on, I was already with him. I don't know, maybe I felt safe. And he likes me like this. He likes me whatever size I am." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/actually-i-think-its-interesting-that-when-i-put-42711/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Actually, I think it's interesting that when I put the weight on, I was already with him. I don't know, maybe I felt safe. And he likes me like this. He likes me whatever size I am." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/actually-i-think-its-interesting-that-when-i-put-42711/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Delta Burke (born July 30, 1956) is a Actress from USA.

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