"After a while in marriage, it doesn't work anymore. There is something missing, there is something wrong. There are few marriages that stay alive forever. We like something, and after a while, we hate what we used to love"
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The most telling move is the collective “we.” Bellucci makes this less a personal confession than an observation about appetite in a consumer culture that trains us to chase newness, then resent the object once it can’t keep generating dopamine. “We like something” sounds almost like shopping; “we hate what we used to love” is the aftertaste of expectation. The subtext is that marriage often becomes a container for fantasies that no real person can keep fulfilling indefinitely, especially when gendered scripts demand that women remain endlessly alluring, patient, and emotionally fluent.
As an actress and public figure, Bellucci is also talking from inside an industry built on reinvention, where aging is treated as narrative failure and relationships are tabloid content. That context sharpens the quote’s edge: it’s less anti-marriage than anti-denial. Her provocation dares you to treat “alive” as an active verb. If most marriages don’t “stay alive,” the implied culprit isn’t love’s inadequacy; it’s our discomfort with the work of change, boredom, and the terrifying ordinariness that arrives when the spotlight moves on.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bellucci, Monica. (2026, January 15). After a while in marriage, it doesn't work anymore. There is something missing, there is something wrong. There are few marriages that stay alive forever. We like something, and after a while, we hate what we used to love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-a-while-in-marriage-it-doesnt-work-anymore-23893/
Chicago Style
Bellucci, Monica. "After a while in marriage, it doesn't work anymore. There is something missing, there is something wrong. There are few marriages that stay alive forever. We like something, and after a while, we hate what we used to love." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-a-while-in-marriage-it-doesnt-work-anymore-23893/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After a while in marriage, it doesn't work anymore. There is something missing, there is something wrong. There are few marriages that stay alive forever. We like something, and after a while, we hate what we used to love." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-a-while-in-marriage-it-doesnt-work-anymore-23893/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









