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Daily Inspiration Quote by Djuna Barnes

"After all, it is not where one washes one's neck that counts but where one moistens one's throat"

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Barnes snaps the reader’s attention from the respectable surface to the appetites underneath it. “Washes one’s neck” is the neat, public-facing ritual: grooming, propriety, the kind of cleanliness that signals class and self-control. “Moistens one’s throat,” by contrast, is intimate and telling. It’s where desire enters the body, where comfort is taken rather than displayed. The line is funny because it’s so bodily and so primly phrased, like a Victorian etiquette manual suddenly confessing what everyone already knows: appearances are a performance; consumption is the confession.

The specific intent feels like a jab at moral bookkeeping. Barnes isn’t merely contrasting hygiene with drinking; she’s mocking a culture that treats virtue as a visible sheen while quietly organizing itself around what it wants - alcohol, pleasure, escape, status. The throat is a synecdoche for craving and voice at once: what you “moisten” is also what you use to speak, flirt, persuade, lie. The neck is what you present; the throat is what you indulge and what betrays you.

Context matters because Barnes wrote out of modernist nightlife and expatriate circles where sophistication often meant learning the choreography of self-invention. In that world, cleanliness could be costume, while the real story lived in the bar, the bedroom, the whispered aside. The quote works as Barnes at her sharpest: a small, elegant indecency that punctures polite myth with one anatomical twist.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barnes, Djuna. (2026, January 15). After all, it is not where one washes one's neck that counts but where one moistens one's throat. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-it-is-not-where-one-washes-ones-neck-141084/

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Barnes, Djuna. "After all, it is not where one washes one's neck that counts but where one moistens one's throat." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-it-is-not-where-one-washes-ones-neck-141084/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After all, it is not where one washes one's neck that counts but where one moistens one's throat." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-it-is-not-where-one-washes-ones-neck-141084/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Djuna Barnes

Djuna Barnes (June 12, 1892 - June 18, 1982) was a Novelist from USA.

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