"After all, we are not children. It's time we planned our life"
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Dayan’s power is that he frames strategy as maturity. Planning your life sounds domestic, almost boring, and that’s the point. In a political culture shaped by war, improvisation becomes a virtue and long-term thinking gets branded as weakness or defeatism. Dayan flips that. He implies that constant crisis is its own form of immaturity: reactive, ego-driven, stuck in the thrill of survival. The subtext is brutal: if you refuse to plan, you are choosing chaos, and chaos will plan for you.
Context matters because Dayan’s authority came from battlefield credibility. When a soldier says “plan,” it carries the weight of logistics, intelligence, and the cost of miscalculation. Read against the Arab-Israeli conflict and Israel’s own internal debates, the quote nudges a society toward deliberate statecraft: borders, diplomacy, demographics, and the moral arithmetic of power. It’s adulthood as national security doctrine, delivered with the dry impatience of someone who’s seen what happens when romanticism substitutes for policy.
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Dayan, Moshe. (2026, January 17). After all, we are not children. It's time we planned our life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-we-are-not-children-its-time-we-planned-75303/
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Dayan, Moshe. "After all, we are not children. It's time we planned our life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-we-are-not-children-its-time-we-planned-75303/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After all, we are not children. It's time we planned our life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-all-we-are-not-children-its-time-we-planned-75303/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.









