"After having children, life becomes about living beyond yourself; about being bigger and better"
About this Quote
“Beyond yourself” suggests a kind of escape velocity from ego, the idea that care becomes a force that pulls you out of your own loop. It’s not about sacrifice as misery; it’s about expansion. Then comes the aspirational kicker: “bigger and better.” That phrasing is pure American self-improvement, the language of branding as much as spirituality. It implies that children don’t merely change what you do; they upgrade who you are. For an actress whose fame was built on glamour and image, that move matters. It reassures the audience that reinvention is possible, that the most meaningful “role” is the one that reframes your life as purpose-driven rather than attention-driven.
Contextually, it fits a celebrity ecosystem that rewards intimate confession while still keeping the message tidy and exportable. It’s not messy parenthood; it’s parenthood as moral trajectory. The power comes from how seamlessly it turns a private shift into a public ethic: grow up, grow outward, become worthy of the people watching you.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Jaclyn. (2026, January 16). After having children, life becomes about living beyond yourself; about being bigger and better. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-having-children-life-becomes-about-living-105948/
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Smith, Jaclyn. "After having children, life becomes about living beyond yourself; about being bigger and better." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-having-children-life-becomes-about-living-105948/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After having children, life becomes about living beyond yourself; about being bigger and better." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-having-children-life-becomes-about-living-105948/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










