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Life & Wisdom Quote by Terry Goodkind

"After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'"

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Restlessness is the engine here, and Goodkind turns it into a moral argument. The line starts as a travel anecdote but quickly becomes an indictment of the default life script: endure the present, earn the future, postpone your actual preferences until your body is tired enough to qualify for them. When other people say, "When you retire", they are offering what sounds like prudence but reads as permission to keep settling. Goodkind answers with a blunt rhetorical question that refuses the bargain.

The intent is less about a particular place than about sovereignty. "Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be" reframes relocation as an existential decision, not a logistical one. The subtext is that comfort and belonging are not luxuries to be unlocked later; they are conditions you can pursue now, if you're willing to pay the social costs: appearing impulsive, ungrateful, unrealistic. His "everyone said" suggests a chorus of well-meaning gatekeepers enforcing a timetable that benefits stability over satisfaction.

Context matters because Goodkind built a career on protagonists who reject imposed systems and choose agency, sometimes with abrasive certainty. This quote carries that same authorial DNA: impatience with compromise, suspicion of consensus, a preference for decisive self-determination. It works because it's conversational and slightly defiant, landing like a private vow overheard. It's not inspirational poster language; it's a challenge to the quiet inertia that passes for responsibility.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Goodkind, Terry. (2026, January 16). After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/

Chicago Style
Goodkind, Terry. "After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Terry Goodkind (January 11, 1948 - September 17, 2020) was a Writer from USA.

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