"After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'"
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The intent is less about a particular place than about sovereignty. "Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be" reframes relocation as an existential decision, not a logistical one. The subtext is that comfort and belonging are not luxuries to be unlocked later; they are conditions you can pursue now, if you're willing to pay the social costs: appearing impulsive, ungrateful, unrealistic. His "everyone said" suggests a chorus of well-meaning gatekeepers enforcing a timetable that benefits stability over satisfaction.
Context matters because Goodkind built a career on protagonists who reject imposed systems and choose agency, sometimes with abrasive certainty. This quote carries that same authorial DNA: impatience with compromise, suspicion of consensus, a preference for decisive self-determination. It works because it's conversational and slightly defiant, landing like a private vow overheard. It's not inspirational poster language; it's a challenge to the quiet inertia that passes for responsibility.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Goodkind, Terry. (2026, January 16). After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/
Chicago Style
Goodkind, Terry. "After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"After that, I came back every year. Everyone said, 'Well, when you retire you can move there.' But I said, 'Why should I live my whole life where I don't want to be.'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-that-i-came-back-every-year-everyone-said-116192/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



