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Creativity Quote by Angie Martinez

"After you date a player or two it's nice to just chill with a guy that can keep it basic"

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Martinez lands the line like a tired laugh after the club lights come on: once you have done a tour through “players,” the real luxury is boredom. “Player” isn’t just a cheating archetype here; it’s a whole performance economy of dating where attention is currency, ambiguity is a tactic, and drama is mistaken for chemistry. The quote’s bite is that it treats this as a learned experience, not a moral lecture. You don’t avoid players because you’re wiser in theory. You avoid them because you’re exhausted in practice.

“Keep it basic” sounds small, even unromantic, but that’s the point. Basic becomes a stealth synonym for emotionally functional: consistent calls, clear intentions, no social-media smoke signals, no rivalries staged for status. It flips the usual hierarchy where “basic” is an insult and elevates it into a standard. The subtext is a quiet reclaiming of power: if the player’s game is designed to make you audition for validation, the “basic guy” refuses to turn intimacy into a competition.

As a pop-culture figure rooted in hip-hop and radio, Martinez is speaking from a world where charisma, hustle, and image are daily tools. The context matters: she’s not naïve about charm; she’s seen how easily charm becomes manipulation. That’s why the line resonates. It frames maturity not as settling, but as choosing peace over spectacle, and calling it what it is: relief.

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Martinez, Angie. (n.d.). After you date a player or two it's nice to just chill with a guy that can keep it basic. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-you-date-a-player-or-two-its-nice-to-just-108863/

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Martinez, Angie. "After you date a player or two it's nice to just chill with a guy that can keep it basic." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-you-date-a-player-or-two-its-nice-to-just-108863/.

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"After you date a player or two it's nice to just chill with a guy that can keep it basic." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/after-you-date-a-player-or-two-its-nice-to-just-108863/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Angie Martinez (born September 28, 1971) is a Musician from USA.

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