"Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be kind, affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his wife. But what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the subject?"
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The subtext is a critique of legal paternalism masquerading as protection. In 19th-century Anglo-American law, coverture treated married women as civilly absorbed into their husbands: limited property rights, limited contractual capacity, limited recourse when things went wrong. “Presume” is the key verb. It names the quiet violence of a system that turns a moral hope into a legal rule, then calls it stability. If the state builds rights around the assumption that power will be used gently, it has already conceded that the power is unchecked.
Rose’s brilliance is rhetorical: she flips the burden of proof. Instead of women needing to demonstrate harm to justify autonomy, the law must justify its confidence in male virtue. It’s an argument made to puncture the era’s sentimental ideology of the home - the idea that affection is governance enough. Rose refuses to let romance do the work of rights, insisting that protection isn’t a feeling; it’s an enforceable structure.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rose, Ernestine. (2026, January 15). Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be kind, affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his wife. But what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the subject? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/again-i-shall-be-told-that-the-law-presumes-the-141184/
Chicago Style
Rose, Ernestine. "Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be kind, affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his wife. But what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the subject?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/again-i-shall-be-told-that-the-law-presumes-the-141184/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be kind, affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his wife. But what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the subject?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/again-i-shall-be-told-that-the-law-presumes-the-141184/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



