"Age is a very high price to pay for maturity"
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The phrasing is surgical. “Price” implies choice and commerce, yet aging isn’t optional. That tension is where the wit lives: we speak about adulthood as if it’s a self-improvement project, while our bodies quietly keep the only real schedule. “Maturity” here isn’t haloed as enlightenment; it’s a modest, even slightly bleak payoff for accumulated loss. You get better judgment, yes, but the receipt includes diminished possibility, a narrower margin for reinvention, the end of certain kinds of innocence - and, often, the end of being taken seriously as someone who might still change.
As a dramatist, Stoppard is always suspicious of tidy conclusions. This line echoes his larger fascination with the gap between what we tell ourselves and what reality charges us. It also carries a generational bite: modern culture fetishizes youth while demanding adult competence, as if you can have the calm without the cost. Stoppard punctures that fantasy with a single elegant complaint, making maturity feel less like a badge and more like what’s left after life has taken its cut.
Quote Details
| Topic | Aging |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Goodbye Baby and Amen (Tom Stoppard, 1969)
Evidence: Page 205. Earliest primary-source attribution I can verify is Tom Stoppard speaking in an interview with Peter Evans that was printed (reprinted) in David Bailey & Peter Evans, *Goodbye Baby & Amen: A Saraband for the Sixties* (1969). The cited wording includes: “…I think age is a very high price... Other candidates (2) The Dictionary of Modern Proverbs (2012) primary95.0% ... Tom Stoppard , interviewed in David Bailey and Peter Evans , Goodbye Baby & Amen ( New York : Coward - McGann ) .... Tom Stoppard (Tom Stoppard) compilation34.2% s the magician put among men to gratify capriciously their urge for immortality |
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