"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another"
About this Quote
The craft is in the bodily metaphor. "What we leave behind us is a part of ourselves" makes the past less like an address you move out of and more like an organ you can’t remove without bleeding. France isn’t warning against change; he’s puncturing the fantasy that desire cancels loss. The phrase "even the most longed for" is the knife twist: if you can’t escape grief in the moments you wanted most, grief isn’t a glitch. It’s the cost of becoming.
Then he escalates from sadness to mortality: "we must die to one life". The subtext is psychological, even spiritual, but the diction is bluntly physical. You don’t seamlessly pivot into a new chapter; you undergo a small death. That severity is why it works: it gives language to the queasy aftermath of "finally" moments, when relief shows up alongside regret.
Context matters. France, writing in a fin-de-siecle Europe rattled by modernity’s accelerations and disillusionments, understood progress as emotionally complicated. His sentence reads like a quiet rebuttal to triumphalist narratives of self-reinvention: growth, yes, but never without a funeral for who you were.
Quote Details
| Topic | Change |
|---|---|
| Source | Anatole France — commonly attributed to 'The Garden of Epicurus' (Le jardin d'Épicure). English translation: 'All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy...' |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
France, Anatole. (2026, January 14). All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-changes-even-the-most-longed-for-have-their-4219/
Chicago Style
France, Anatole. "All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-changes-even-the-most-longed-for-have-their-4219/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-changes-even-the-most-longed-for-have-their-4219/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.











